No matter what you do, some how you end up messing your child up... Since children do not come with manual. You assume that you know what is best for your kid by your own personal life experiences. However, you are already messed up my your designated parents. So what makes you think you will be any better. Ok so maybe you a new and improved parent model. :O) And be smart enough not to repeat the same mistakes your parents did. In my case my father was the main cause of the majority of the issue I face now. My mom basically did nothing about so I guess that also makes her partially responsible. XD
Nevertheless I am a perfectionist so :o/ there we go, that is it! This is how I will mess things up! I am extremely hard on myself... So I know I am going to be hard on my offspring!